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What is Sexual Abuse
Sexual abuse can range from abusive words and looks to unwanted touching and sexual intercourse.  Sexual abuse happens to girls and boys of all ages and from all backgrounds. Many girls and boys are sexually abused by men and women they already know eg fathers, mothers, uncles, brothers, "friends", teachers and acquaintances.

The effects of Sexual Abuse
The experience of sexual abuse can completely change the way you view yourself, others and the world around you. It can severely damage your self esteem and ability to form trusting loving relationships.  Effects such as depression, panic attacks, substance misuse, self harm, suicidal thoughts/attempts and eating disorders. Many survivors end up with a mental health diagnosis and feel that they are crazy when in fact they are experiencing normal reactions to being traumatised in childhood. You may believe that being abused was your fault but it was not. Sexual abuse is a betrayal of a child's basic rights.

As it is usually secret, it can be very hard to tell anyone what has happened to you.
That is why we are here.

 

Aims and Objectives of ISAS

Aims
ISAS was established to provide support and counselling for adult survivors of childhood sexual abuse (CSA), their partners or supporters and their families. ISAS also aims to raise public awareness of the issue of childhood sexual abuse and its long term effects.  

 Objectives

  • To provide face-to-face, telephone and group counselling, and a telephone help-line,  which support survivors of childhood sexual abuse, their partners or supporters and their families.

  • To recruit and train volunteer counsellors and ensure that they receive supervision according to the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy requirements.

  • To campaign via the media and, with use of promotional materials seek to raise awareness and understanding among professionals, voluntary groups and the general public of the long term effects of childhood sexual abuse.

  • To act as a resource centre, providing information to professional and voluntary groups, including the general public.

  • To offer training to professionals, students etc, to explore the issues of sexual abuse, including offender behaviour, its long-term effects and appropriate treatment.

  • To develop ISAS as a professional organisation utilising the individual strengths of the Management Committee, Manager, Coordinator, Administration Officer and Volunteers.

  • To continue the funding campaign in order to be able to meet the overall aims of ISAS.

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Our Services
ISAS takes self referrals and those from GPs, mental health teams, social services, probation service, prison services, criminal justice teams, drug and alcohol teams, voluntary sector organisations and other counselling services.

All referrals are offered an initial assessment appointment within two weeks of the initial contact and advised of waiting times for counselling in their particular area. Whilst waiting , clients can receive support via the telephone helpline.

  • Survivors of childhood sexual abuse are offered up to twelve months of one to one counselling or where appropriate the choice of attending a group.
  • Partners, parents, family members of survivors are offered up to eight weeks counselling.
  • Sessions are usually for one hour per week.
  • Clients are offered a choice of gender of their counsellor.

Our Counsellors
We select our counsellors very carefully. They are either fully qualified or on their final year of diploma training. We provide regular training and supervision in accordance with the British Association of Psychotherapy and Counselling Code of Ethics and Practice. We currently have 34 qualified volunteer counsellors. Recruitment takes place on a regular basis. If you wish to be considered for a volunteer counsellor placement with ISAS on our next recruitment campaign complete the application form.

The ISAS counselling service is confidential with the usual child protection and risk assessment provisos.

"Just want to say that I think the office staff at ISAS are great! They are helpful, reliable and supportive. Without them behind me there is no way I would cope and they help make my counselling life easier. Thank you all and keep up the good work."
Quote from an ISAS volunteer counsellor

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Recommended Reading List

Surviving Secrets - Moira Walker

Surviving Child Sexual Abuse - Liz Hall & Siobhan Lloyd

Victims No Longer - Mike Lew (male survivors)

The Drama of Being a Child - Alice Miller

The Obsidian Mirror - Louise Wisechild

Abused Boys - Mic Hunter

Speaking our Truth - Neal King (male survivors)

Cry Hard & Swim - Jacqueline Spring

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Student Information
Please find below the links to the most frequently requested policies for student research. If you use these policies for your research we ask that you give the source.

Code of Ethics and Professional Practice
Complaints
Confidentiality
Equal Opportunities
Client Referral and Assessment
Vulnerable Person Protection

 

SARC - Sexual Abuse Referral Centre

ISAS are involved with the Nottinghamshire Sexual Assault Referral Centre and is committed to providing a sensitive and dedicated service that meets the needs of victims of rape and serious sexual assault by offering an immediate and initial 8-week support service to help reduce the long-term effects of such trauma.

Below is a statement issued by Nottinghamshire Police:

Victims of Rape and Serious Sexual Assault
Nottinghamshire police are committed to supporting those who have been subjected to rape or serious sexual assult and to prosecute those who commit these crimes.  A number of our officers have received specialist training in dealing with these crimes and are aware of the sensative issues that are often involved in supporting victims. If you have been the victim of such a crime we want you to tell us about it so we can start to help. The police can assist in you receiving ongoing independent support through the Topaz Centre, a dedicated facility to support victims of rape and serious sexual assault. Victims will be taken to the Topaz Centre (or hospital if a child) where they will be offered a forensic medical examination, if appropriate, and the opportunity to provide a statement or special video interview whilst being supported by an independent support worker. This support can continue throughout the investigation and prosecution process.

However if you are still uncertain about telling the police you can make contact directly with the Topaz Centre and seek advice. The Topaz Centre is committed to providing a sensitive and dedicated service that meets the needs of victims of rape and serious sexual assault throughout Nottinghamshire through a partnership between the health service, police and voluntary sector. You can speak to the Topaz Centre staff and be offered the relevant information to be able to make an informed choice and receive support, whatever your decision.  www.topazcentre.org.uk

 

 


Queens Award
for Volunteers 2005

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Last updated on 8 December 2009